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Angie B Love is a self-help development junkie, health & fitness enthusiast, avid reader, mother, wife club member and lover of all things woman!!!!
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Angie B Love
Side-chick epidemic: Coming to a relationship near you!!
Why are you so happy being the other woman?
Why are you satisfied with second best?
Why are you so
content with a “piece” of a man, lying to you and giving you the scraps of his time?
Are you that desperate disguised in “I’m just doing me! He’s
the one married to her, not me!
You act as if you’re doing something so spectacular, but
honey he comes home to the wife every night.But he tells you how unhappy is and he’s going to leave as soon as the
time is right! I bet!
You’re a toy, a “fun
thang,” a receptacle for him to release his frustrations (crap) on.A human toilet. Yes, that is what you are. He has
no real commitment to you. He did not wife you, he married her. She knows the “real”
him. You know “of “him. The person he “tells” you he is, but you don’t “know”
him. Of course he’s perfect with you. He
can ignore his responsibilities, his bills, his problems. You are his escape
from everyday life. You’re not asking him to fix a bottle for a crying baby at
3AM or asking about a $300 water bill because of leaking pipes. That’s why it
easy for him to talk to you, easy to lay in bed next to you, easy easy, easy.
You get that your “easy”…..?
Let me break this
down for you a a minute….
When he looks into his wife’s eyes, he sees a reflection of
himself, good or bad. Only he knows if he has been a good husband and/or father.
He wants to please her, make her happy, and live up to the standard of her
desires. If he does not feel he has done so, he will feel like less of a man in
his wife’s eyes. In her presence he will feel like a loser. Every man wants to
win and if he is not winning financially or emotionally in the home, he will
feel worthless. You, my dear allow him to gain a false sense of winning.He is able to check out of reality. You do
not speak to the man in him, but the boy in him. The wife is calling out the
king in him. If he’s not ready he will take the “easy “way out and that is
“you” my dear. Why are you so satisfied with being “easy”? Is it because of
self-esteem issues? Daddy issues? Typical?!... I don’t know but seek counsel.
You have a real issue here!
If nothing else, think about your future married self. Would
you want another woman to step in because you had a bad day? Do you want to
constantly live on edge, fearful that your husband is cheating on you because
your body is not the same anymore after giving birth or an argument with your
husband got a little heated and now he’s on the sofa?
Oh sweet heart, listen to me closely. There are women like
you being born every day who will attack the very fabric of your marriage just
as you have done.
You’re proud to be a side chick huh?
Well let’s see how
proud you’ll be when the tables turn… What are your thoughts?